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When others are offering help, don’t push them away; when you are all alone, don’t push yourself away.

December 12, 2011

Hi, I’m back from KL. Although this is my second time I attend MMI I learnt lots of new stuff.
Before I share what I’ve learnt in that event, I would like to share some other stuff that I’d come across.
This couple of month I’d learn that sometimes we have to face problems on our own, you know I used to live the life that rely on others’ decision or opinion, and the results are I did not solve any problem. On the other hand, Sometimes there are problem that we’ll be needing help from others, there is a saying ‘Two is Better than One‘. But to get the balance I know I’ve to start being more Self-Approval to myself. And so, I decide to go to KL and stay by my own, the moment I decided that, the little-evil-voice starts the engine telling me all sorts of stuff like ‘This is so dangerous’, ‘You can’t make it by yourself’, ‘Give up!’ etc. I feel the fear but then I talk back to the inner voice ‘Thanks for sharing, but NOT THIS TIME‘ I smiled to myself and start searching for Budget hotel and transportation. At that time, my brother, uncle, aunt came and help me out, my uncle start to call his KL friends, my brother start searching for more information about the budget hotel, my aunt told me about KL for me to familiarize it. I was so touch and I know this is the time I open my hand and receive their warm helps. That’s not the end, one of my friend know my situation and called me to offer me to share the accommodation with them. I don’t know how in the hell I could thank all of them.
When I reaches KL Puduraya 4:30A.M. I was all alone and everything over there are so unfamiliar, I was in fear facing those foreign workers, my plan was to take the LRT, but it’s not open until 6A.M. and I’m so not going to stay at PuduRaya for two hour, so I decided to take the taxi to get to Wisma M.C.A. I’m glad nothing happen. It’s really a great experience for me.
Before I had this experience I’m kinda eager to step on somewhere unfamiliar by myself, and when that happen I’m filled up with fear. What does this means? Anyone would like to help out and share? =)

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I’ll share the MMI event on the next post.

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2 Comments leave one →
  1. December 12, 2011 5:20 pm

    think u juz have to like d exploring part and keep reminding urself “stay away from ur comfort zone”!!!
    did u feel the sense of accomplishment? Yeah! thats how u learn things…

  2. December 13, 2011 2:40 pm

    Hmm, Yea, I love exploring! You got me about the comfort zone part, I stay in my comfort zone for way too long, now is the time I stretch it bigger and bigger!
    Accomplishment, hmmm, What if I didn’t feel it?..
    Thanks for the insight!!! =)

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